Life Goes On!!!

We met, we laughed,

We walked,we talked,

We became kids,we did some stupid things

Life was going on smoothly,the way it should be going

I did some childish things and had some wonderful time.

All was going well,life was going on fine.

Then one fine day,I got something to cheer about

my friend also got something to cheer about,so it was fine.

Then things started to change

nobody was getting time,

still my friend was there and so was I.

Time started to pass-by,we had no time,

life is no longer a child's play,but still we had our time.

Some more time passed,life had to change

and one fine day I got my moment again,

expecting things to be smooth again,

but to my surprise,my friend was far away,

being delighted wanted to celebrate my moment again,

but something went wrong in between,

I always believed to speak out the things,but that also does not helped.

The only thing that I got of it is that, life goes on and on and on,

so better is to let it go, the way it does it's own way.

It's complicated.

Another weekend came.The best part in working in an IT companies is that weekends come so soon here.At the time we start to burn-out,weekends come for our rescue.The most difficult days in the week are Monday and Tuesday.Monday is the worst insomniac of the five working days.Anyways things are going on smoothly at job front with some difficulty in the new opportunities for automation.But I am sure that I will come out of this in the best possible manner.

Today got a call from one of my friend.I don't know what went in his mind that he proposed his one of the best friend.What I can get of all this is that if a guy proposes a girl,it is like a do or die situation.If girl accepts then everything is good, but somehow if she rejects then it is worst for the boy.It is really difficult for the boy to cope up with this situation.But still I can not figure out,why did she refused the proposal.They are actually very good friends and my friend is the one who really cares for her.It actually reflects in the way we start to behave,when we are kind of committed for someone.

But now as she rejected,it is difficult for him to even call her.Actually this whole concept of a guy proposing a girl is flawed.Why only guys are expected to call,message or even propose a girl?If there is something in the mind of a girl,they should be expressive.Sometime they do talk,and sometime they are the most busy creature on this planet.Anyway girls are caring and value any relationship a lot and every time they have the final call in their hand and it should be with them.But still they should be a little bit more affirmative in their approach towards those who really trusts them:).

But as is the saying that it is really the biggest puzzle to speculate what is going on in the mind of a girl.Similarly with my friend things went wrong in misunderstanding his best friend.But I really wish that they should be together.

So as a good friend,it is my responsibility to be the next best friend and pacify him with a good movie and some class food,as the next best thing for any guy apart from their loved ones is the classic food for which we can forget anything.I have always believed that if we want something,we should really work for it in every situation.May be we are busy with our job,love,life or some other urgent work, our priorities should be there.But things becomes a little bit messed up when we are caught among so many things going simultaneously.One of my mentors told me that if we actually want something,we will surely get it.So better to strive for our ultimate love and passion together in the best way we can.But things with others are actually pulling us back.

It is complicated and we cann't help it:).

Delhi Belly!!!!!!

Writing this blog after a long period.So much has happened in between.

So many birthdays came and gone with some real nice treats.

Went to watch Delhi Belly with friends and it was probably the first time,that I wanted to laugh but wanted it to get over as soon as possible.Really had nothing to say after the movie.Was irritated a little bit so left after the movie without saying much.It was not a proper behavior but it does happens with each of us sometimes,so no issues as such.

Some great thing in the form of patent also happened in the office front.Hoping that it will get selected ultimately.Some nice demos and presentations were in the store backing up the presentation.So it will be good.Also some of the nice advice and wishes from some of the friends is actually working these days.So just want the things to be the way they are going.

Life is all about up's and down's and the earliest we realize it will be the best for us.

Last week saw the wonderful match that Federer lost.I actually felt bad when someone like him losses but that's the part of life and everyone faces some tough time in his/her life.So he will come back for sure.There are some guys whom I really admire.Federer and Sachin are the two who tops the list.Seems that this writing should be enough after the busy day that I had today.

Cheers:)

Why do we always hurt those closest to us?

Why do we always hurt those closest to us? These are the people that mean the most to us yet so often we find ourselves losing our temper more quickly with them, or say things we know are hurtful. On the flip side, we tend to almost be more cordial and tolerant with those who are not so close to us. We tend to try harder to please those that are not so close, and therefore are more polite and grateful to them.

Some people say that the answer to the question of why we tend to hurt those closer to us is because ironically ourloved ones be it parents,good friends or beloved ones know the 'buttons' to push in us. They know what triggers us and when they do it, they hurt us more deeply and we retaliate and hurt them back. This is true when there is a very low level of trust in the relationship. We may have been hurt so many times by those close to us that our response to a slight provocation is based not only on the provocation at hand but also all the past hurts we have endured. This results in a disproportionately more severe retaliation to hurt the person.

We are more likely to get angry at someone close to us because we have higher expectations of them. We expect them to know us and understand us better, to be able to predict our needs and take heed to our feelings better. We expect them to be more sensitive, more reliable, more trustworthy and more loving. We expect more time, more effort and more commitment to us. These higher expectations also means that it is easier for our dear ones to fall short of them. Failure to meet and expectation hurts us more deeply when it is by a dear one.

The next reason why we are more likely to get angry to someone close to us is because we have come to take them for granted. For new acquaintances or those not so close to us, we try to impress and gain their friendship by being nicer and more polite. However when it comes to our dear ones, we feel that we no longer have to work for their affection.Some of us may think this is rather morbid but I can guarantee that you will stop taking those around you for granted if you always keep in mind the possibility you could lose this person.

In conclusion, talk about your expectations and always learn to cherish those close to you before it is too late. This way, atleast there will be at least a sense of faith and honour for aur dear ones,and we will think thrice before actually hurting the feeling.

A Day Full Of Confusion!!!!!!

When we wakes up in the morning,what is the first thing that comes to our mind?I guess everyone thinks that the day goes smoothly with not much ambiguities and complications.But we can n't predict that what is actually there in store for us.

On the same note I started my day with the same thinking of having a great weekend but things always don't go the way we actually want it to be.

Actually I had a plan of going for a movie with a friend today so I decided to skip a session that I had to attend today.But then due to advent of mobile technology,things got worse when I called her and she called me back.By chance it came busy each of the time.Phone kiya,trunk call kiya ,sms kiya,ping kiya but things didn't go according to my plan.So I decided to skip the plan of movie and attending the session again.I was getting the feeling that this is just the beginning of a day that had so many surprises for me.

I guess in the past one month,it was the hottest day and to my surprise,no bus came at my stop.After half an hour,I got into a bus that was already overcrowded which ultimately got struck in the worst Bangalorian traffic jam:(.I had to report for the session at 1.30 pm but I reached there by 2 pm.The faculty was ready to kick me out of the class but somehow I got to convince him that by mistake I thought the timing of session to be 2 pm rather than 1.30 pm.After attending the session for 4.5 hrs,I just wanted to end my day at a good note.

So I thought of calling my friend for a walk but my good luck was at it utter best.I got to a Volvo and I somehow dropped the ticket somewhere in the bus itself.In the last 5 years or so,I never saw that police comes to check whether everyone is carrying a ticket or not.So a cop caught me travelling without a ticket and he was ready with a big fine.I knew it could n't be better for me,but thanks to the school-kind of bag gifted by my old teammates,I somehow convinced the cop that I actually bought a ticket and I lost the ticket in bus itself by mistake.The conductor came to my rescue.I had money but by chance I escaped without a fine:).Anyway,this day had it moments but things went exactly the opposite I thought it to be a day before:(

Still 3 hrs are left for the day and I am skeptical that still some surprises are there in store for me:):):):).